So, How's Married Life?

If I had a rupee every time I was asked how married life was, I'd have had a dollar in my hand right now. Initially, I tried answering ...

If I had a rupee every time I was asked how married life was, I'd have had a dollar in my hand right now. Initially, I tried answering this question with sincerity, but it turns out "Married life a? But it's only been 3 days" is not an answer that is popular with the masses, so these days when asked the question on text, I offer my standard reply of "Oh it's great. I'm having a really good time!" followed by numerous smiley faces. Being interrogated about your "married life" during socializing I've found, is more of a challenge because unlike text messaging, it is difficult to ignore the assorted follow-up questions that tail my standard smile-and-"it's good!"-answer (Standard smile because if I were to show exactly how happy I am being married, most people would think I'm on a pretty potent blend of recreational drugs).


Say Crack Again.


The questions are more or less typical depending on the person asking it - unmarried acquaintances and friends want to know everything about my new domestic setup, older couples want to know if I am "having fun" (after which they say "Enjoy this time, you will not get it again" the same way one would to a prisoner on death row), and grandmothers want to know about the goings-on in my bedroom.

A couple of days ago though, I was asked if I've learned anything. I have actually: To begin with -

I Am Not A Domestic Goddess (Also the title of my upcoming Romance Novel)


The eight months or so that I was engaged, my father gave me a free hand at office to take time off whenever I wanted to. I suppose it was wise on his part to leave me alone because:

a. I am counter-productive to his practice as is, and

b. having a distracted me around would've made his office like one of those sitcoms where there's this strict boss but everything goes wrong for him and the audience finds it hilarious and keeps laughing except it's not a sitcom and there's no audience and he might lose all his clients and we might be too broke to have the wedding and OHMYGOD LET ME OUT OF THIS NIGHTMARE.

So when I wasn't in the middle of wedding shopping or wedding running-behind-the-tailor or wedding hanging-out-with-fiance, Amma said I should take the time to learn a few things about "running a household" and "taking charge of the kitchen" or she wouldn't be able to step out in society without being referred to as The Mother Of The Daughter in Law Who Can't Cook Haha and then be scarred with that reputation forever. I was quite enthusiastic of course - I had been watching a lot of Nigella and surely Domestic Goddess-ness couldn't be that hard (especially considering the number of cupcake bakers on Facebook); and so I decided to take the time to learn new things. Unfortunately, all I learned was how to mercilessly burn three pans while endeavouring to master a brownie recipe and leaving a permanent stain on my mother's new frying pan trying to make Aloo Methi. While I'd like to think of these things as tangible memories that I've left behind for my mother so that she can recall fond memories of my presence in that kitchen and then cry some happy tears, my sister tells me that the moistness in my mother's eyes are not from bittersweet happiness, but relief.

Whatever.

A day or two after the husband and I came back from our honeymoon, I decided the time had come for me to exhibit my skill in the kitchen. Unfortunately, before I could as much as light the stove, I tripped over the metal door stopper and scraped a lot of skin on my foot resulting in a fair bit of bleeding (I held on to my trademark ladylike composure though, I doubt anyone could've hopped, skipped or squealed with the grace that I did) and I had to be taken to the hospital by my mother-in-law for a proper dressing and a really nasty tetanus shot. 

Amma dropped by the next day, and my mother-in-law gently patted my head and told her about how I was a poor thing who had to unnecessarily experience pain and go to the hospital, all because I had wanted to cook something. "Imagine what would've happened" said Amma thoughtfully, "if she had actually cooked"

[More lessons on married life shall be posted here as and when they are learned]


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  1. Very funny. Your mum's comment takes the cake, icing and the cherry on top :)

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  2. :D haha ha..yeah if you hadn't fallen the catastrophe would have been different! Went through the same phase few years back. Have now evolved into a woman who can cook something which is edible. Cooking a tasty dish is still years away.

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  3. Hahaha..very funny...

    Even i went through a similar phase in my early days of marriage...we survived on Maggi and ready-to-cook meals mostly!

    All the best with everything!

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  4. haha.. true that... i've had cut on finger.. hot oil on dress... chilli in to eyes... and even managed to break a knife... :)

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  7. Feelings of every new married girl put in words. Just a word "LOVELY" :)

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