13 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was 13

There appears to be a tag on the rounds - thirteen pieces of wisdom that you wish your 13 year old self knew. No one has asked me to do the...

There appears to be a tag on the rounds - thirteen pieces of wisdom that you wish your 13 year old self knew. No one has asked me to do the tag, which is probably why I'm so eager to type it out this wonderfully busy Monday afternoon. Before I begin though, two major observations - One, I was 13 twelve years ago. Two, I was 13 TWELVE YEARS AGO. I'm pretty sure there's Scotch my age that is being sold with a "vintage" label.

Sad face.

Anyway, here goes:

1. Eat healthy. I know that eating junk food the way you did was nothing short of an art, but I have to tell you that 19 year old you had a really, really, really, really, really, really, REALLY hard time losing the weight you accumulated with your specific diet of top ramen noodles, cheese on everything and potato chips. A thumb rule: 3 Pringles are ok. 3 tubes of Pringles in one go while watching the Johnny Bravo marathon aren't.

2. Don't judge people. This is something you've recently begun to do, miss. Just because someone is 'X' never implies that they are also 'Y'. Everyone has a story, and everyone knows something you don't. The quicker you stop doing this, the less annoying you will be when you grow up.

3. Make strong friendships. This is the age when real friendships are forged. It's good to have "lots of friends" but it is so much more important to forge close friendships - especially of the female kind - invite your friends home, go to their places, don't bunk birthday parties because you were feeling lazy, and spend half an hour after school talking about nothing. When you grow up, they will become the people to whom you can send TR Speaking English videos without the fear of being physically abused.

4. Read. Read everything. You have a great reading habit. Don't get lost in the literary quicksand that is fluffy young adult. Read the classics. Read Shakespeare. Read Russian writing. Read poetry. It all seems overwhelming now, but I promise you'll get it. Put The Princess Diaries down. Please.

5. Get Good Marks. Sorry to sound like Amma, but really - if you can get 80 by not studying and watching Cartoon Network all day, imagine HOW MUCH MORE you'll get if you actually studied. You can be a topper! You're smart enough! Why are you not listening to me? Fine, don't listen to me. They're your marks. YOUR LIFE. Do whatever. I am not paying for your college. *slams door*

6. Play A Sport: Even if you suck at it (which I know you do). Nothing comes automatically, but sport gives you an hour to take the day off, and indulge in something for fun. It gives you team mates, new friends, a different social circle, and makes you an interesting person. Note: Competitive Eating is NOT a sport.

7. Work on Your Writing: So I found something you wrote recently, and while the writing itself was beyond awful, I will tell you that it had a lot of potential. You can be really good if you work on what you have. You will lose a lot of writing competitions in school despite being the English teacher suck-up simply because you were too lazy. Read more. Write even more. Work, work, work. (If you had worked hard, I wouldn't be writing crap in this blog now. I'd have been writing crap in newspaper columns. Sigh)

8. Get back to Paatu Class/ Dance Class: But don't get back to both. One is enough. Get back to dance class. Or Paatu class. But get back.

9. STOP BUYING TURTLENECK T-SHIRTS OHMYGOD. Seriously.

10. Don't Be Embarrassed By Yourself:  Ya. You're chubby. People make fun of you. But guess what, people will make fun of you even after you've dropped the 25 extra kg and got yourself a nice haircut because people, they suck. Don't listen to them. You're pretty cool. Except when you're being whiny and annoying because then you're totally not cool.

11. Geography isn't as difficult as you thought it was: You'd know too, if you actually read it instead of sleeping in class and trying to mug the lesson at 5 AM on the day of your exam.

12. Be More Careful With Your Stuff: I still don't get how you managed to lose your pens on an everyday basis.

13. Boys Your Age Are Stupid: If you must absolutely have a crush on someone, pick an older boy - in fact there is a really cute boy with the most incredible brown eyes and half a pair of dimples about 4 batches senior to you in Vidya Mandir. Keep an eye on him but for heaven's sake don't creep him out the way you creep other guys out THIS IS IMPORTANT OKAY.


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7 comments

  1. Beautiful! I guess the writing talent still keeps you good company, huh?

    I think Scotch (among other things) gets better with age.

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  2. Wonderful list! I wasn't too much into junk food but I'm working really really really hard to shed off those extra calories and I really wish I had not given up on the dance that I'd started learning.

    Some say that there is no particular time to start learning something and you are never too old for it, but I guess some things aren't fun when you do it 10 years later than when you're expected to do it. If they are, there is no reason we shouldn't give it a shot!

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  3. Had a blast reading this very funny list ! thumbs up to points 4,7 &10. :)

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  4. Ah I wish I had known this... especially getting good marks part :D

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  5. Haha I had a good time reading this. Especially "competitive eating is not a sport". I loved the way you write. I am subscribing to your blog asap :)

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  6. Almost all these are things you feel you should have done better. If you had done these better there would be a few other things you could not have done well.

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  7. Lovely list. Can relate to about 14 of them...oh wait, there's only 13 :p

    Maybe life would have been a lil different if we could go back and change a few things here and there. But then again, I guess not many would want their life to have turned out otherwise than the way it is, some memories are that wonderful.

    Nice post. Do drop by mine.

    Cheers
    CRD

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